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DAY 1: Caring for Feelings

Layne Burkette

Cultivating Calm: Build Connection, Regulate Emotions and the Nervous System

Layne Burkette is a life-loving mother of four, a Professional Counselor, and a Yoga Psychology & Meditation Teacher. She is passionate about helping individuals and families improve emotional regulation, balance their energy, and cultivate calm and connection through Somatic Skills, Breathwork, Yoga, Meditation, and Counseling. With 20 years of experience, Layne guides people toward healing, emotional resilience, self-compassion, and connection by helping them regulate their nervous systems, rewire trauma responses, create balance, and raise the vibration of love in their bodies, hearts, families, and the world.

SUMMARY:
Layne Burkette specializes in somatic therapy–she explains what that means and how these techniques create more peace and presence in the body. Layne takes us through a fun experiential practice to show us easy things that parents can do, either in the moment or preventatively, to help regulate our emotions. You won’t want to miss this interview. You’ll feel amazing afterward, and these simple techniques are things you can do with your kids, too.

Barby Jimenez

Reacting to Responding: Transforming Parenting Through Awareness

Barby Jimenez is a parenting coach, mom of two young adults, educator, and facilitator dedicated to helping parents shift from control to connection. When traditional discipline methods strained her relationship with her own children, she sought a new approach, trained with Dr. Shefali, and became a certified Conscious Parenting Coach. Barby integrates Compassionate Inquiry, Polyvagal Theory, trauma-informed practices, mindfulness, emotional regulation, and relationship-building into her coaching, workshops, and support groups.

SUMMARY:
Barby Jimenez emphasizes connection over control in parenting. She shares her transformative journey from traditional discipline to a more compassionate approach, and highlights the importance of self-awareness and emotional regulation. Barby shares her 3-step “Pause and Reframe” framework, which encourages parents to reflect before reacting. She addresses common parenting challenges (including beliefs like “I don’t have time.” “My child’s behavior is unacceptable.” “This feels unnatural.”), advocates for parents to have self-compassion and offers connection-building strategies, while sharing practical tips so parents can “heal through reflection”.

Arleen Tyndall
Breaking Free from Intergenerational Cycles and Inherited Pain
As a mother, Arleen Tyndall was so passionate about helping others break free from intergenerational cycles that she left her 27-year career as a clinical pharmacist, and trained with Dr. Shefali to become a Conscious Parenting and Life Coach. Born in Canada to immigrant parents, she fuses Western societal ideas with the Eastern spiritual guidance from her mother’s birthplace of Bali. Her healing journey allows her to be the mother her sensitive and strong-willed son needs and informs her coaching, workshops, and support of parents from all backgrounds.
SUMMARY:
For years, Arleen Tyndall has been answering the questions, “How does our own childhood pain get in the way of parenting our own kids? And how do we heal?”. Her healing journey has included understanding her own family history, visiting her mother’s birthplace, not believing every thought, and questioning her own judgments and stories. Arleen says, “I created a never-ending cycle, all my constant DOING–studying, yoga, meditation, therapy–distracted me from BEING.” In this interview, Arleen shares ways that we can shift from “doing” to “being”, and why our parenting and our kids benefit from imperfectly working towards that shift.
Dr. Natasha Ching

Taming Parenting Triggers and Being Compassionate With Ourselves

Dr. Natasha Ching (Doctor Tash) is a Melbourne-based pediatrician and proud mother of two, who is passionate about child development, responsive parenting, and empowering families. She trained at the Royal Children’s and Monash Children’s Hospitals and became a Fellow of the Royal Australasian College of Physicians. She champions the belief that “connected kids thrive” and provides practical tools and compassionate guidance to help families grow together.

SUMMARY:
As a pediatrician and a parent, Dr. Natasha Ching understands how difficult parenting can be, especially when we feel overwhelmed, time-pressed, or are parenting solo. How can we survive everyday triggers when we already feel stretched thin? Tash leads us through a 3-step process, so we can regulate our emotions, identify the trigger, and help ourselves to show up the way we want to in tough moments. This doesn’t mean that our kids need us to be perfect, nor do we need them to be perfect. What is more important is replacing any guilt and shame with compassion. Tash says that “unless we are able to show compassion to ourselves, we cannot extend it to others,” and kids who’ve been treated with kindness will have more kindness to give to others.

Debbie Simmons

Unsure of Your Parenting? Take the Next BEST Step

Debbie Simmons is the founder and CEO of Anchor Point, a nonprofit providing hope, resources, and actionable insights to help parents and families thrive. A mother of nine through adoption and a grandmother to 14, Debbie understands firsthand the challenges and rewards of parenting. As a parenting coach, speaker, and author of The Perfectly Imperfect Family, she has guided countless families with wisdom, faith, and practical strategies.

SUMMARY:
Debbie Simmons says that “progress in parenting doesn’t come from perfection but from moving forward.” She shows us how to use the BEST strategy, her 4-step process for choosing what to do next. She shares about how we can release the guilt we might feel in parenting when things don’t work out the way we wanted them to. Debbie’s stories are inspiring, her advice is reassuring, and smile is infectious. When Debbie says that “parenting is a journey of a thousand moments” it helps us keep things in perspective and keep moving forward.

DAY 2: Communication Builds Connection

Dr. Kirstin Barchia

How to Handle Teen Moods, Refusal, Closed Doors and Reconnect Again

Dr. Kirstin Barchia is a clinical psychologist who has worked with teenagers and their families for the past 25 years. She developed the Calm Connection Program and other online resources to help parents of teens because she’s watched so many great parents unknowingly make mistakes, because they didn’t get the support they needed. As a researcher who has conducted studies on teen bullying and aggression, lying, delinquent behavior, and resilience, Kirstin wants parents to have access to strategies that are based on scientific and psychological research, along with practical support and guidance.

SUMMARY:
For parents of teens (and tweens) who are dealing with eye rolls, moodiness, or slammed doors, it might seem like the only choices are: 1. punishments and consequences that don’t work, 2. ignoring them and walking on eggshells, or 3. waiting until they’re 25 years old. Dr. Kirstin Barchia talks about what is going on with our teens and shares what parents can do to make things better. She talks about the most common mistakes that good, well-intended parents make with their teens and simple things that we can do differently. Kirstin says that many teens are sad about losing the closeness and connection with their parents. For teens, growing up is inevitable; growing apart is not.

Kristina Nation

The Power of Connection When Your Teen Is Depressed

Kristina Nation is a best-selling author of the Perfectly Imperfect Family and other books, international speaker, youth and family therapist, and parent coach dedicated to helping families of teens struggling with depression. Kristina provides parents with the tools to deeply connect with their teens, provide unwavering support, and advocate effectively for their mental and emotional well-being. She is a mother of four and foster mother, whose clients benefit from her years of personal and professional experience and her degree in Youth Development.

SUMMARY:
Kristina Nation supports parents of teenagers with depression, a topic that is intensely personal to her. She knows firsthand the fear and helplessness that parents often feel when their child is struggling. Kristina talks about the importance of self-care for parents, maintaining a strong relationship with your teen while still having healthy boundaries, and building a support system around your family. Kristina shares advice about how to create a safety plan with your teen, how to find professional help, and how parents can work through their own feelings of shame or guilt. Finally, Kristina urges parents to keep your relationship with your teen strong and to have hope by “believing it can get better”.

Melanie Zwyghuizen
How a Mindset Shift Can Build Stronger Connections
Melanie Zwyghuizen has spent over 30 years working alongside families, in addition to raising her own three children. She believes that with the right mindset, tools, and knowledge, parents can create a peaceful, joyful home while raising confident, emotionally healthy kids. Through personalized coaching, workshops, and small-group classes, Melanie has helped many parents, with littles to emerging adults, have stronger connections, better behavior, clearer communication, less stress, and greater harmony at home.
SUMMARY:
When Melanie was teaching high school students, she struggled with parenting her own kids. The solution was when she realized that she just needed to apply the same principles in her home that she did in her classroom. Over time, Melanie shifted her parenting approach from managing her kid’s behavior to guiding their growth. She shares how to pause and reflect with our kids, ask open-ended questions, practice empathy, and do active listening.
Sheryl Ang

Get Unstuck and Reconnect During Family Meetings

Sheryl Ang

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 Sheryl Ang is an educator, coach, homeschool mom of her three boys, and an advocate for child-centered learning. She understands the overwhelming challenges parents face in balancing life, educating their children, and fostering meaningful connections. With certifications in Peaceful Parenting, Wunderled Education, Mindfulness, Woman-Centered Coaching, and her study of neuroscience and social-emotional learning, Sheryl takes a multidisciplinary perspective to help mothers find aligned ways to create the greatest ease in their lives.

SUMMARY:
Want a parenting tool that will help get you out of overwhelm, unstuck from patterns that don't work for you, and build closeness and connection in your family? Sheryl Ang says to try a family meeting. Family meetings aren’t just another thing to add to an already overflowing to-do list; rather, they will make the “to-dos” disappear by creating the kind of family that you want to have now and for the future. Listen to this interview to hear how to get started with family meetings.

Heather Schalk

Managing Meltdowns During the Toddler Years

Heather Schalk is a twin mama, the founder of The Toddler Toolkit Podcast and The 3-Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Course. She has a master's degree in education, and for the past ten years, she’s taught pre-K through ninth grade. Her passion is helping parents develop long-term, customizable strategies that work.

SUMMARY:
Heather Schalk explains that if a young child is having a meltdown and the parent solves it by distracting them with a phone, or saying “no, stop that!” or removing them from the situation, the child misses a learning opportunity to develop their advocacy skills. In this interview, you’ll find out what advocacy means, why it’s important, and how to help your child develop their advocacy skills. Heather shares her 5-step process for handling using emotional moments, like meltdowns, as learning opportunities for kids and their parents, and explains how to use these steps with a child who has limited verbal ability.

DAY 3: Hot Spots in Parenting

Dr. Carrie Mackensen

How to Have Better Tech Boundaries with Kids

Dr. Carrie Mackensen brings 25 years of clinical expertise and real-world experience as both a psychologist and a mother of two boys. Her diverse background spans Cedars Sinai Hospital, K-12 schools, private practices in Beverly Hills and Manhattan Beach, and serving as Clinical Director for premier treatment programs. With a Ph.D. in Individual, Family, and Child Psychology, Dr. Carrie combines professional wisdom with the practical insights of a “battle-tested” mom, offering evidence-based strategies with warmth and humor.

SUMMARY:
Screens are in our kids’ lives. Dr. Carrie Mackensen helps parents know about how to navigate our kids’ digital world without evoking parental panic, guilt, shame, or the desire to trade in your home and move your family to a cave. Carrie shares what the research says about how screens are impacting brain development, the current recommendations for screentime by age group, and simple, easy ways that parents can say no to screens with their kids using her CARE framework. She also talks about how and when to do a digital detox.

Caroline Griswold

The Good Fight: Helping Kids with Aggressive Behaviors

Caroline Griswold is a parenting coach, mom to a preteen son, and the founder of Fertile Ground Parenting. She is a certified Hand in Hand Parenting instructor and is also trained in the Educaring® Approach (RIE®). Since 2018, she has been helping parents grow into their parenting with grace, insight, and humor.

SUMMARY:
Caroline Griswold talks about how to help kids with aggressive behavior. The first step is to understand the fears and needs underneath kids' behavior, so that parents can respond with warmth rather than anger. Caroline shares how to stop kids from hurting others, when to jump in, and when to allow them to fight, and how to remember their goodness, even during a tough time. With warmth and encouragement, Caroline reminds parents to go slowly, take breaks, get support for our feelings, care for ourselves, and build a support network.

Jenna Wolfe
Breastfeeding Beyond Babyhood: Toddler Behavior and Healthy Boundaries
Jenna Wolfe helps families who are breastfeeding beyond babyhood to create a breastfeeding and weaning relationship where everyone thrives. She is a certified Lactation Counselor, certified Purejoy Parent Coach, and has completed Happily Family's Parent Coach Training. She works with moms to tune into their innate wisdom, while she supports their parenting journey and mental wellness from a trauma-informed perspective.
SUMMARY:
There has been so much more awareness about breastfeeding in recent years in North America, and yet there is still a lot that can be done, especially for moms who choose extended breastfeeding. Jenna Wolf talks about the negative messages you might hear about extended breastfeeding and how to address them, how to have boundaries with a nursing toddler, what to do if you feel “touched out”, how to wean, or why “boob addiction” might actually be a good thing. Jenna connects the breastfeeding relationship to the parenting relationship with her unique perspective and years of wisdom.
Rebecca Reber
The Sex Talk: What Kids Need to Know & How to Tell Them
For over 2 decades, Rebecca Reber has led a teen parent program in Southern California called the Freshman Preventive Program, which ensured that the entire Freshman class received education in healthy relationships, sex education, and online safety. She received the Heart of Extraordinary Service Award and was named the Riverside County Early Childhood Education Teacher of the Year. Rebecca is a mom to a young adult son and a teenage daughter.

SUMMARY:
If you are wondering how to talk to your child about sex, Rebecca Reber, has answers. She explains why parents can’t rely on the school alone to teach sex education, how to increase the odds that your child will feel comfortable coming to you for information about sex, and what to say at each age and stage. Research shows that if we have these (perhaps uncomfortable) conversations with our kids early and often it makes it less likely that they will become a victim of sexual violence, or have an unwanted pregnancy.

Emma Gleadhill

Why Young People Stop Talking to Their Parents & How to Change That

Emma Gleadhill brings 28 years of experience as a leading educator, teacher, school leader, trainer, and parent of a teen. As a parent coach, Emma specialises in psychological wellbeing, emotional intelligence, and healthy relationships in her work with over 50 schools across the UK and with parent groups in corporate settings. Emma brings clarity and insight to parents and teachers from cutting-edge psychology to everyday life so that people leave her sessions feeling equipped and empowered.

SUMMARY:
It’s natural for parents to want to fix and solve your child’s problems, but Emma Gleadhill recommends doing something else instead. She advises parents to slow down, move into curiosity, bear witness, and observe. We chat with her about why it’s so hard–but so important–to stay in those moments when our child or teen is in touch with their pain. Emma says, “healthy relationships–secure attachments–are characterized by the capacity to be vulnerable”. Emma shows us that when we can be open to our kids, they can be more open to us.

DAY 4: All Kinds of Minds

Dana Denning
Unlock Your Home’s Potential by Nurturing Emotional Regulation

Dana Denning is the founder of Nourished Nest, an online holistic interior design and coaching resource that helps families create homes designed to meet core needs—nervous system regulation, connection, rest, and the reduction of environmental triggers. As a mother of a differently wired child, Dana understands the transformative power of small, affordable changes in fostering family well-being.

SUMMARY:
Dana Denning looks at how the environment impacts the emotions and behavior of a child (and parents, too!). She shares tips about how to create calming corners, lighting, indoor air quality, and how to set up things for sleep, especially if your child is neurodivergent. Without buying anything new, families who make small, intentional changes to their home can significantly boost their well-being, nervous system regulation, and connection.

Dr. Glorianne Vázquez

Transform Parenting Anxiety and Worry Into Meaningful Action

Dr. Glorianne Vazquez is a clinical psychologist with fifteen years of experience specializing in anxiety, worry, and parenting stress. She has worked extensively with parents of neurodivergent children in both community mental health and private practice. Motivated by her professional experience and her personal journey as a mother of two neurodivergent children, Dr. Vázquez founded Regulated Parenting, where she equips parents with practical, research-backed tools through personalized coaching, group sessions, and emotion regulation skills training.

SUMMARY:
Dr. Glorianne Vazquez understands that all parents, but especially parents of neurodivergent kids, have some degree of worry and anxiety. She explains the purpose of worry and why we do it even when it doesn’t actually help the situation. Glorianne explains the difference between worry and anxiety, and shares her 3-step process to address worry both “in the moment” or “outside the moment”. She also shares how we can use these same steps to help when kids worry.

Dolores Gage

NEWrodiversity: Minds decoded, Potential unlocked

Dolores Gage is a Davis Facilitator, Presenter, and Supervisor-in-Training based in Madrid, Spain. She works with clients both in-person and online and specializes in supporting neurodivergent individuals with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, executive function challenges, and autism. Dolores’s journey into neurodiversity began while seeking help for her son’s learning challenges. She is passionate about how Davis provides answers where traditional approaches fall short.
SUMMARY:
Dolores Gage supports children and young people with ADHD, dyslexia, and autism by focusing on the strengths of neurodivergent thinking and addressing the unique learning challenges of each person. Dolores uses the Davis method, which was created by Ron Davis, who had dyslexia, autism, and ADHD himself, and authored the book The Gift of Dyslexia. She explains the 3 common traits behind neurodivergence, how the Davis method works, and how parents and others can partner with these vulnerable kids in their family, school, and community.
Dr. Poling Bork
Innovative Tools for Kids With Selective Mutism and Other Phobias
Dr. Poling Bork is an author, consultant, and researcher specializing in selective mutism and social anxiety, based in Canada. She founded Canada’s nonprofit Selective Mutism Foundation in 2017 and developed the world’s first digital games and virtual reality systems to address SM and social anxiety. Dr. Bork has spoken and lectured at Oxford University, Belgium, Norway, and in the United States.

SUMMARY:
Dr. Poling Bork became a researcher of selective mutism (SM) when she couldn’t find effective therapies for her own children. She explains what selective mutism is and how video self-modeling works to address SM as well as other phobias and issues. Video self-modelling allows kids can see themselves as competent, which motivates them to further develop their skills.

DAY 5: Parenting for the Future

Dr. Daniel Siegel

Parenting Presence Helps Kids Navigate Challenges from Inside and Out

Dr. Daniel Siegel is a clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine and the Executive Director of the Mindsight Institute. He has authored or co-authored several books including Parenting from the Inside Out, the Whole Brain Child, Brainstorm, The Yes Brain, The Power of Showing Up, and Intraconnected.

SUMMARY:
We asked Dr. Daniel Siegel our toughest questions. We ask him what parents can do if they want to help their teen, but their teen does not want help. We talk about how to be a supportive presence, especially if your child is struggling with anxiety or depression. Dan explains that the brain has two states: a reactive state and a receptive state. The best parenting is done when parents are in a receptive state of mind. A receptive state means that we are open, ready to connect, curious, loving, and accepting. But acceptance is not approval; it's not being passive. In parenting, we can still have boundaries, and we can teach our kids. As adults, we have a chance to look at difficulties and really see them as opportunities to support our kids, especially during the tough times.

Vibha Arora

Transform Control Freak Parenting into Control-Free Parenting

Vibha Arora is a Transformation and Parenting Coach specializing in helping her clients look under the surface to find solutions that are more than just a quick fix. She works with clients and parents virtually and facilitates parent education classes online and in person. Vibha has a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, is a certified parent/teacher Positive Discipline Facilitator, a Conscious Parenting Guide, mom of 2 young adults, and is the host of the podcast Kaleidoscope – Shifting Perspectives With a Twist.

SUMMARY:
Vibha Arora understands why parents might be tempted to try to control their kids–to keep them safe, focused, achieving, or behaving. But is it possible to actually control another person, even a small person? And even if we could control someone else, is that the kind of parent you want to be? Vibha says, “connection–not control–is the true currency of resilient relationships.” In this interview, we explore practical tools, insights, and the advantages of forming a relationship with kids based on connection, rather than coercion.

Sandy King

Empowering Ourselves and Holding Space for Our Kids

Sandy King is a Whole Connections Coach, Master NLP Practitioner, ICF-certified Coach, and Trainer specializing in Kids Coaching Connection and The Empowerment Dynamic. Through her groundbreaking program Soul Parenting, she guides parents to transform their relationships with their children by addressing intergenerational patterns and guides families to change the cycles that are breaking them. Sandy is married and is a parent of five young adults.

SUMMARY:
We talked with Sandy about not just how to show up for our kids, but how to show up for ourselves. She says that “it is okay and important to want what we want, so our kids can feel the deep motivation to strive towards something they value”. Sandy shared tips on how to release strong emotions, hear and trust our inner intuitive knowing, be fully present with our kids, and balance our needs and wants while also supporting our child’s needs and wants. She shares how parents can shift to more empowering beliefs, from “I am responsible for everyone and everything” to “I trust and know that I am responsible for myself, and I hold space for others”. Ultimately, this conversation doesn’t just apply to parenting; these are tools to live an empowered life, while among other humans who also need our support and care.

Michelle Godfrey

How to Parent Without Losing Yourself

Michelle Godfrey has over 25 years of combined experience in holistic health and wellness. She founded Let’s Blossom to help families improve their health and thrive. As a Certified WILDFIT Coach, Adventures in Wisdom Coach, Mind, Body, Eating Coach, and a Positive Intelligence Coach, Michelle helps parents create a foundation of lifelong wellness both mentally and physically by nurturing the mind, body, and soul.

SUMMARY:
Michelle Godfrey shares the pitfalls of people pleasing in parenting; it doesn’t teach kids to have healthy boundaries and leaves parents exhausted and overwhelmed. In the Positive Intelligence approach, Michelle explains each of the “saboteurs” (people pleasing being one of them) and leads us through an experience to get back in touch with our “sage” qualities. The Positive Intelligence approach was brand new for us, and this conversation with Michelle is highly recommended.

Susan Notis

Discover Your Child’s Temperament & Love Language

Susan Notis is a certified integrative wellness coach and the founder of In Balance Life and Parent Coaching. With a passion for helping parents navigate the challenges of raising children, she offers coaching programs designed to alleviate overwhelm, release perfectionism, foster balance, and empower parents to lead with compassion. Drawing from her experience as an award-winning teacher in both public and holistic schools, as well as a proud mom of two teenagers, Susan combines personal insights with professional expertise to empower families.

SUMMARY:
As an educator, Susan Notis understands the importance of seeing the strengths and gifts in each child. She explains how parents can be more effective if we identify and understand our child’s temperament, figure out what our child’s love language is, and find joy in our child even during difficult times. These perspective shifts don’t mean that you ignore your child’s behavior, but rather that you see your child through a lens of unconditional love.

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